Inspiring Global Connections in Lithuania
by Stephanie (Coartney) Dulaney ’09
Somewhere between the campus ministry activities she loved, the spring break mission trips that left her a changed person,
and the deep relationships she formed as a McKendree student, Rev. Erin Totten ’11 discovered her calling as a pastor. Now, eight years later, she is using her gifts
as a United Methodist minister halfway around the world in Lithuania.
As part of the Global Mission Fellow (GMF) program, Erin is on a long-term mission
in the Eastern European country of Lithuania, serving the community in and around
Pilviškiai and Kybartai United Methodist Church (UMC). The GMF program sends approximately
100 volunteers between the ages of 20 and 30 all over the world for mission work that
lasts years at a time. Erin is halfway through her two-year experience in Lithuania,
where she leads church services, oversees two youth groups, teaches English as a second
language to local adults, and has created a Nordic hiking group as part of a holistic
wellness project.
Her passion for serving others through mission work began in her teen years and grew
throughout her McKendree experience. Traveling with fellow students, she visited Chicago
neighborhoods and the rural Appalachian communities of Virginia before venturing abroad
to Costa Rica with the UMC Illinois Great Rivers Conference.
Lithuania proved to be an even bigger step of faith. In a culture where women are
rarely church leaders and the language barrier is steep, Erin is stretching her own
abilities while teaching others. “The most challenging thing is not being away from
home for a long period of time; it’s learning the local language,” she said. “Lithuanian
is a very old language. It has roots that go back to Sanskrit.” After one year, she
is still working to improve her speaking skills in a new complex language.
Erin has used her unique position as a female minister to show local children and
youth that women can lead churches, too. Most Lithuanians have never seen a woman
pastor, so she has shared her story in elementary schools and is starting a children’s
ministry at the church where she directs worship services and preaches the weekly
sermon.
Not long into her time in Lithuania, Erin had to rely on the help of others when she
slipped on ice and broke her wrist. “Part of the adventure was a trip to the local
emergency room,” she said. “If you are wondering what the hospital looks like, it’s
somewhere between the Harry Potter infirmity ward and a Soviet military hospital.”
With a sense of humor and positivity that serves her well, she has learned life lessons
in humility while growing her appreciation for her Lithuanian friends and neighbors.
Erin’s view of mission work has always been about building relationships rather than
bringing change to the people she is serving. “I believe that we can no longer go
into a community and change them for who we think they should be,” she said. “We are
called to equip and to train the local leaders. When we do ministry with them, we
are supporters. We are encouragers. Their culture and identity does not need changing,
but we can change to adapt to the needs of others.”
She remembers how McKendree helped instill that mindset in her and prepared her to
become a global citizen. “I am grateful that as a university community, we were exposed
to a broad range of thinking, a broad range of community and culture,” she said. “When
I worked in the Lair, I would often work with an international student. I loved being
able to build a friendship and learn more about who they were. My intercultural speech
communication class also brought new understanding that people are the same all over
the globe. In the times I served on the alternative spring break mission trips, I
was the one who was always changed.”
Midway through her time in Lithuania, Erin already knows the experience has changed
her again in many ways. She hopes to show the local community the same values she
learned as a Bearcat—that we are all connected as one people.